Navigating Meal Etiquette with Friends on the Camino
First of all, I want to thank everyone who posted questions on last week’s video. Camino Questions
I’m starting to work through all of them, and this week’s question is from Pete, who asked about the etiquette for handling payments when dining with friends on the Camino.
Etiquette for Dining with a Group
Peter’s question is about the etiquette for dining with a group and how to split the bills. This is a great question because one of the reasons I make these videos is to help you enjoy your Camino, especially your first one, without feeling awkward about such situations.
In a Camino Albergue Setting
One common scenario is cooking a meal together in an albergue. When buying ingredients, it’s important to be sensitive to the group’s preferences and budgets. Some may have strict dietary needs or tight budgets. Use common sense and don’t ‘expect’ everyone to chip in. For instance, someone might suggest everyone contributes five euros for ingredients, or one person might buy everything and split the bill afterward.
An example from my experience was at a donativo albergue run by Father Don Blas in Fuenterroble de Salvatierra on the Via de la Plata. The meal, which was a communal effort, was one of the best I had on the Camino. Everyone contributed what they could, and we shared the joy of a simple, delicious meal.
Dining Out on Camino
When dining out, the same sensitivity applies. If you’re ordering from a pilgrim menu with a set price, splitting the bill is straightforward. For a la carte meals, be mindful of what your meal costs. It’s polite to keep track of your expenses to avoid confusion when the bill arrives.
If someone volunteers to pay with a credit card, ensure to give them cash to cover your share. Rounding up your contribution slightly can also cover tips and small discrepancies.
Paying for Other Pilgrims
Sometimes, one person might treat others. For instance, on my birthday, I invited fellow pilgrims for a special lunch and covered the cost. This gesture was well-received and added to the camaraderie. Or you might sense that a fellow Pilgrim is short of cash and offer to buy a meal for them?
In summary, splitting the bill is standard practice. Be fair and sensitive to others’ financial situations. If someone is struggling, contributing a bit extra is a kind gesture. The essence of being a pilgrim is to be considerate and supportive of each other.
Thank you for the great question, Pete.
Oh, that great albergue run by Father Don Blas? You can see it on this blog page and video
Here’s a story about sharing camino accommodation.
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