{"id":1309,"date":"2015-06-16T05:08:30","date_gmt":"2015-06-16T05:08:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/robscamino.com\/?p=1309"},"modified":"2016-01-22T22:40:30","modified_gmt":"2016-01-22T11:40:30","slug":"16th-of-june-is-walking-the-camino-selfish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/16th-of-june-is-walking-the-camino-selfish\/","title":{"rendered":"16th of June &#8211; Is Walking the Camino Selfish?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Is Walking the Camino a Selfish Act?<\/h1>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For those of you who&#8217;ve been following my blog, you&#8217;ll know that about three weeks into the <em>Camino<\/em>, I went through a bit of a low period, feeling that I was rather being selfish taking six weeks out.<\/p>\n<p><em>Why would I think that?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I think for many reasons, not least of which was that I had left a lot of people back home covering for me at work, and also had left my wife behind to deal with some family matters.<\/p>\n<p>My brother asked me a couple of weeks ago what made me feel down and what made me have that feeling of selfishness.<\/p>\n<p>So in case you thought I was a bit weird, I thought maybe I should share it.<\/p>\n<p>My father in law has actually been having heart problems for quite some time. And it was two weeks into my <em>Camino<\/em> that my wife told me that he was going to need open heart surgery.<\/p>\n<p>Naturally, I felt like I should be at home supporting the family. And that created a very difficult decision for me, which I pondered for a number of days.<\/p>\n<p>It was only at my wife&#8217;s insistence, that I actually stayed to finish my <em>Camino. <strong>&#8220;After all,&#8221;<\/strong><\/em> she said, <em><strong>&#8220;what are you going to do, if you come here, you&#8217;re not exactly a doctor, are you?!&#8221;\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Now I&#8217;m in Bangkok on my way back home to Sydney with Pat and her family, and it&#8217;s great to see her father back home and looking so healthy.<\/p>\n<p>And a huge thank you, Pat, for encouraging me to continue my journey, <em><strong>&#8220;for us.&#8221;<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure for anyone taking a number of weeks out to walk the <em>Camino<\/em>, you&#8217;ll also have conflicts on your priorities, that only you can deal with.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps this is one of the lessons that we also learn on the<em> Camino?<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For those of you who&#8217;ve been following my blog, you&#8217;ll know that about three weeks into the Camino, I went through a bit of a low period, feeling that I was rather being selfish taking six weeks out. Why would I think that? I think for many reasons, not least of which was that I had left a lot of people back home covering for me at work, and also had left my wife behind to deal with some family matters.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1310,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[4,10,13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1309","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-emotional","category-reflections"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1309","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1309"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1309\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2348,"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1309\/revisions\/2348"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1309"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1309"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/robscamino.com\/2015\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1309"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}